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Six Similar Goals: These are common goals whether you are mediating or litigating your divorce.

Distribution of Property (Assets and Liabilities) (Marital and Non-Marital)
Child Custody and Parenting Time (Commonly referred to as a Parenting Plan)
Child Support and Spousal Maintenance
Distribution of Retirement Assets
Resolve Income Tax and Health Insurance Issues.
Put the agreement in writing and sign it.

The Differences

Mediation:

In mediation, couples work together with a mediator to work out an agreement on the above basic issues.
Mediation takes several months while litigation often can take several years.
Mediation costs typically are a few thousands of dollars while litigation costs are several of ten thousands of dollars.
In mediation, spouses are in control of their own future and their children’s future, rather than Courts, Judges, and Attorneys.
Mediation provides an effective way for couples to work together with the help of a neutral professional to resolve their differences in an amicable and cost-effective way.
Mediation is flexible, confidential, can be informal and is less stressful.
A divorce mediator is neutral and doesn’t “work” just for one spouse or the other.
Mediation is more cost-effective. “In 2005, the average mediated case cost $3000 and was settled in 90 days. In turn, the average litigated case in the courts cost $15,000 and took 18 months to settle.”

Mediator’s Job:

Keeping the discussion going focusing on resolving core issues.
Maintaining a positive and productive atmosphere to help the couple resolve their disagreements and reach a solution.
Providing professional and technical insight about the process, its goals, and alternative ways to settle the complicated issues the couple is faced with. Often this is done by brainstorming with the mediator quickly providing alternatives that the couple may have not even considered.
When divorcing couples get off track and away from the above issues during mediation, arguing, name-calling and bad prior memories are brought up and the mediator helps to avoid this.
Mediators put the couple’s agreement into a writing that the couple will ultimately sign. This is commonly referred to as a property settlement and separation agreement with or without a parenting plan. This agreement will be the basis of how the couple will live in the future, separated from one another.

Mediators Cannot:

A mediator cannot and does not “work” for one party or the other.
Mediators do not file lawsuits in court. Although mediators may be attorney’s, if they act as a mediator for both couples, they need to avoid any idea that they are “really only representing one party or the other.”

At BuffalyNYDivorceMediation the first consultation is free. If you would like to schedule an appointment with us please click (Schedule Mediation). This can be done in our office or virtually using our remote online video conferencing solution that is simple to use.

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Buffalo New York Divorce Mediation
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